Perhaps some women would choose the first option, others the second, and that would be perfectly fine. Do you know why? Because this diversity of opinions shows that there isn’t a single, steadfast standard of beauty that pleases everyone; rather, there are different perspectives, and that should be okay, don’t you agree?
We understand that, from society’s viewpoint, things don’t work this way just yet. Unfortunately, we live in a generation where the culture of social media can be ruthless when it comes to women’s physical appearance, leading to negative comments about their bodies, even for famous individuals (as is the case with Selena Gomez). It’s important to remember that all body shapes are beautiful and that physical appearance should not be the sole measure of a person’s worth.
This idea might sound easy, but in practice, discussing our own bodies is extremely complex. We always want to change something about them, because society makes us believe that something is wrong and that we need to attain “perfection.” Additionally, on social media, we are increasingly exposed to the image that a slim body equals beauty, health, and status, when in reality, it only conveys a false sense of happiness.
But is there a secret to the perfect body?
In my opinion, it’s crucial to acknowledge that the concept of a “perfect body” is highly subjective and influenced by cultural, societal, and individual norms. What constitutes a perfect body can vary widely from person to person and from culture to culture. Instead of fixating on an ideal “perfect body,” it might be more helpful and healthy to adopt an approach centered around health and well-being. This could involve setting realistic and achievable goals regarding physical activity, nutrition, and mental health care. It’s important to remember that health encompasses more than just physical appearance and that body diversity should be celebrated and respected. We should remind ourselves that, no matter how challenging it might be, every scar on our bodies represents a battle we’ve overcome, and that should be a source of pride, not shame.